Part Two
Consider a manager that has a list of 100 applicants for the position of secretary in an organisation. The criteria of selecting is that he must choose 1 person, and he only has to go through the profile of each applicant once. So he either decides to choose the first profile (Resume) on the list or go to the next profile of another applicant. He cannot go back to the previous applicant after has already gone through the profile of the next applicant. From this logic, he either make the decision to choice the first applicant if her profile is suitable for him or keep on flipping till he gets to the 99th or 100th applicant. In contrast the manager must make decisions based on the information contained in the Resume of each of the 100 applicant, not necessarily the best among the 100 applicant but the one that can fit in base on her Resume.
Furthermore a manager that is looking for the best out of the 100 applicant will keep flipping through and expecting to find better applicant as he through the resume of each applicants, getting to the 98th 99th and 100th, he might realize that he has missed better options along the way and will be compelled to settle for the 100th applicant. Meanwhile a manager who knows the actual quality he want in his secretary does not need to flip through the whole resumes of 100 applicants to make a good choice, rather he might make his choice after going through first 10 applicant.
Integrating this scenario into our story of an conscious man and his relationship, you will understand that there is no perfect partner our their and if you continuosly look for the best candidate before you make your choice, you might be aging day by day and by the time you have gone through the profiles of the 100th candidate you might end in regrets as you had missed much better person while you were exercising your options. In reality you might also know that there is an option to go back to your Ex, but don’t forget that he/she might have married before you realise that they were a much better person to choose as a partner.
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